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take time...

to read and eat a cupcake!!!

heeheee...

this afternoon is so lovely,
raining lightly outside,
the kids are sleeping soundly,
cool air blowing into the living room, as i enjoy 

1. a beetroot (low sugar) velvet cupcake topped with sinful cream cheese frosting with watermelon candies (stolen from lizzie's stash of goodies from batman and bumblebee party!!), thyme leaves and sesame seeds!!!  yummy! 

2. a cup of coffee

3. a great book written by christopher ash: bible delight (the review on this website did not do justice to his book.  It's 5 star! I'll share more when i have time!)

x'mas is just round the corner...
i'm having lots of thoughts...

   

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haikus

last night S and my hubby cracked their brains on what to write for the church's bulletin on discipleship group sharing as the dateline was up.

my hubby decided to write a haiku since it's short and sweet.
S thought it was fun and helped me with mine.
then hubby came up with two more for the kids!
funny!

Feed on the bible,

Roast chicken and fellowship

Burp! My spirit's filled. 

  • Kaif


I cook and they hear.

But still more deliciousness!

We devour the word.


  • sarah


DG on Friday

is when I can stay up late

"Mom, we have to pray!"

  • Lizzie


Every Friday night

Uncles and Aunties file in

I sleep, DG starts

  • Marissa

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bye bye weekend...bye bye...

hello dear friends,

how's your weekend?  hope it was lovely...

i'm at a loss as to what to post.
but i know that i want to post something...
something meaningful...

i was just surfing the internet, reading various blogs, news and articles...
looking for something meaningful to post...

there are lots of recipes that i could post...
lots of design stuff to post too...
lots of pictures in my iphoto...
there are lots of good articles that tell one how to live life better too...

but nothing like this (days with my father by philip toledano) which i've posted before, speaks most closely to what's in my heart right now...so i'm posting it again...

Lizzie's great grandma, has just passed on...

She is 91 years old.

we are very sad that we have not made more effort to spent more time with her.

we should have spent more time talking to her even though she didn't seem to respond very much due to dementia.

though she often sits in the centre of the living room with family members around her, she seemed lonely, detached and unengaged.

now that she is gone, our hearts are burdened with lots of regrets.

may it be a stern reminder that we ought to treasure our relationships...even when it is very difficult...

we should spend more quality time with our loved ones especially our parents and the other older folks in the family...

life does not go on and on...

one day, God will take it, and we will have to account for it.

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have a nice and restful weekend!

hey friends, what are you up to this weekend?

are you feeling exhausted and flat from a week's worth of work?

Sometimes a busy and exhausting week need not leave us unhappy, unfulfilled and disheartened.
In fact, we can feel very satisfied and contented from a very busy life.
We usually feel discontented only when our hearts are not cheery and thankful towards God and when we think we are self-sufficient; we can do all things by ourselves.

I'm no exception.  When i don't count the blessings of God enough and when i look to man for affirmations and not God, a busy week can lead to emotional unheavals! Ha! does that sound familiar?

Anyway, have a restful weekend if you have not had a good week.

Here are some of my favourite readings of the week:

1) confessing "I don't want to confess!" from metro moms blog

2) what's fickle about fatigue? from metro moms blog

3) stolen beauty by garance dore
This reminds me that i shouldn't spend so much money on spa to give myself a treat, hoping to enjoy the entire 1 and 1/2 hour of massage!!!!

4) Cool flower arrangement from design*sponge blog: we like it wild: fall market to table

5) Coffee culture: The Espresso Room: Not just another Coffee Shop by the arbuturian

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a minimalist at work

   

my mister is in the midst of clearing his many books, cds and other stuff.

he is inspired by the simple guide to the minimalist life by leo babauta.

then i found these star wars figurines in the wastepaper basket and had pity on them.

he probably had them since he was a child.
he said he had taken a picture of them.
but i rescued these figurines, cleaned them and took a picture of them again.
can you hear them shouting,
"help! we are still in good shape! is there anyone out there who would like to have us even though we are no longer in our boxes and therefore have no value??!!!"

P.S. when i told my mister that i'm going to write a post on this, he said i shouldn't. but i still did it. so naughty. but i think this is hilarious.  he is probably quite embarrassed. ;p 

 

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"my secret to a happy marriage"

recently, joanna goddard who had just gotten married, got various people to share about their secret to a happy marriage on her blog: cup of jo.

my favourite is stephanie nielson's.
reading about other people's secrets to a happy marriage not only makes me ponder about our secret to keeping our happy marriage but also reminds me that i should never take a good marriage for granted. :)
to keep a marriage is hard but to keep it happy is even harder.

my mister and i met each other in college and courted each other for almost 10 yrs before we got married!
our first couple watch was the swatch black and white, min and hour hand watches!
we were still in college and i chose to wear the white minute watch (haha) because it's more helpful!

anyway, to cut the long story short, i thought that our struggles were over once married but no!
there were lots of expectations to deal with especially after we had children.

but we've come to realise that we have to submit to GOd's sovereignty,
make Him the priority of our lives followed by our marriage, our family and career.
so what does this mean in practice?

we never go to bed unless we've sorted out our differences, unhappiness, temptations, uneasiness or even a doubt before God.
we never give up trying to get up early everyday in the morning to pray and read the bible together.
we believe that love is about the will more than it is about the emotions:
we believe that God gives us the will and the ability to act lovingly.
we always travel together and avoid long business travels.
we always apologize when we are wrong even in front of our children.
we leave ourselves with no other options but to stick to each other and to be in partnership in bringing up our children and in gospel work (no outsourcing).
above all things, the joy and blessings of a happy marriage comes from GOd.

if you don't feel right with your spouse or with your marriage, never avoid the problem and indulge in work or other things.
confront it, work on it, pray about it and build, rebuild and revive the relationship with the help of GOd.

 a husband and wife is like a pair of swatches: one with the hour hand and the other a minute hand, you can only tell the exact time when you put them together!!!! 

thank you for reading!

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deep thoughts: don't waste your life

was thankful that i attended our church's equip conference "meet yourself in the parables" last tuesday

the first passage which speaker mike raiter spoke about was matthew 18:21 -35 (the parable of the unforgiving servant)

he reminded me that we all owe God a great great debt like the servant in the parable who owe the king ten thousand talents
like the servant, we all are  unable to pay off this debt even if we sold off everything we have (all our assets, children and wives)
but God like the king, out of pity and compassion for the servant who pleaded for patience, released him and forgave him the debt.
this was an amazing gift of forgiveness
all christians are like this servant, we all have received this amazing forgiveness

however, like the servant, we often make 2 mistakes after receiving the amazing and undeserving gift of forgiveness:
1. we forgot grace

we forgot that with forgiveness comes a great responsibility 
we often forgot that we need to forgive others like God has forgiven us

2. we live a life not fearing judgment

what is your answer to the question: if you were to die tonight, where do you think you will be? heaven or hell?
if your answer is heaven, what would be your answer to God if he ask you why should he let you in?
many christians will be able to tell you that they believe that they will go to heaven because Jesus Christ has paid the ransom for them and that it is by grace and not works that they enter the kingdom of God.
it is easy to give the correct answer.
but mike reminded us that Jesus cautioned in the sermon of the mount that not all who say "Lord, Lord" will enter the kingdom of God.

a true believer bears fruit; good works in his or her life even though it is by grace and by faith, we are saved.
hence we need to work out our salvation in trembling and fear for God

the second passage of the night was matthew 25 (the parable of the ten virgins and the parable of the talents and the final judgment):

the lesson from this passage was that we ought to be a good and faithful servant till christ returns again.

mike raiter retold the story which john piper urges his readers to consider in his bk "don't waste your life".
this is what he wrote:
"I will tell you what a tragedy is. I will show you how to waste your life. Consider this story from the February 1998 Reader's Digest: A couple 'took early retirement from their jobs in the Northeast five years ago when he was 59 and she was 51. Now they live in Punta Gorda, Florida, where they cruise on their 30-foot trawler, play softball and collect shells. . . .' Picture them before Christ at the great day of judgment: 'Look, Lord. See my shells.' That is a tragedy.

"God created us to live with a single passion: to joyfully display his supreme excellence in all the spheres of life. The wasted life is the life without this passion. God calls us to pray and think and dream and plan and work not to be made much of, but to make much of him in every part of our lives.

from here

what are the talents God has given me?
health, life, energy, resources etc etc.
he gave these talents for a reason, a purpose
he expects me to produce a profit from these talents

will he say to me, "well done, you good and faithful servant. you have been faithful over a little ; i will set you over much." (esv)?
Or will he say to me, "you wicked and slothful servant!" then take away what was given to me and throw me into the outer darkness where there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth.?

will i be considered as God's sheep who bless others and thus be welcomed into the kingdom of God or
will i be considered as the goat who did nothing to help and bless others and thus be sent away into eternal judgment?

image from here: showing a man reading the book by john piper in the tree. 

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happy father's day

this is what we did with lizzie for father's day.

it's really fun to paint on canvas!
my husband who studied maths and engineering throughout his schooling years really enjoyed painting!
he said he was quite deprived of arts!!!
hahaha...he actually could paint the lion and elephant very well don't you think so?

happy father's day to all daddies!
hope you are not like my husband who had to paint his own father's day gift with his daughter,
who then decided that the painting should be hung in her bedroom instead!!!

   

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a 3 yr old's painting

lizzie did an incredible painting this afternoon.

her interpretation changes each time you ask her.
but her first interpretation of her painting was that it is a zoo house, sheltering the animals from the rain!
don't you think it's a great improvement from her first piece of painting which was in my earlier post?

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tokyo disneyland

we were exhausted on the first day from the night flight!
we've learnt that it's a no no with young children!
poor lizzie hardly slept and threw up many times on the coach from airport to disneyland.

but thank God that we stayed at the newly open tokyo disneyland hotel which is gorgeous and situated just outside the park!
the cool air and the sight of the castle-like hotel and the amusement park quickly brighten up lizzie when she alighted from the coach.
we quickly went into the park after putting our luggage at the hotel.
unfortunately, it was so crowded at tokyo disneyland during this time as it is spring break for the japanese students.
we had to queue for rides, toilets, food and shopping! 
it's tough with two young toddlers especially lizzie who wanted to be carried most of the time on the first day as she was tired and a little apprehensive of the new environment!
though she can take most rides, she's only comfortable taking those without much sound effects!

we went back to the hotel for a nap in the noon and went back into the park till dusk!
we had fantastic views of the whole park and fireworks at night from our room!

on the second day, we woke up at 7am,
ate our breakfast within 30min and started queuing at the gate of the disneyland.
although the tokyo disneyland residents enter the amusement park through a different entrance from the public, it was already crowded with people from the hotel.
but it was worse at the public entrance.

the moment we past the gate, both kaif and i raced into the park like everyone else!
it was such a frenzy!
while kaif ran to get fast pass for winnie the pooh rides with marissa in the patapum pouch, i ran and pushed lizzie in her stroller to her favourite dumbo elephant rides!
we were crazy! like all the japanese around us!
can't believe that we did these things for our kids!
i remembered that i was so cold that my ears hurt like mad! 
i was running as fast as i could in my, not sports shoes, but only pair of lanvin ballerina flats!
so my feet were really numb with cold!

despite the tiredness and crowd, we were all very happy at the tokyo disneyland and will plan to return when marissa is much older.
its dreamlike land just makes you forget about all the cares in the world!

another thing which i'll never forget is that because lizzie was afraid of taking pictures with all the disney characters, her mommy, i, had to squeeze through the crowd to take memorable photos with them!

even baby marissa managed to take 3 rides at disneyland - a small world, winnie the pooh and car racing with mommy who drove with one hand! ;p

               

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